Thursday, February 25, 2016
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Thursday, February 11, 2016
How Surrogacy and Egg Donation Agency Owners Fail: 8 Tips to Avoid Isolating Yourself
What does this ‘isolating yourself’ possibly mean? We have
the Internet and phone(s) what else is there? Believe me I get this reaction
all the time when I‘m consulting would-be surrogacy and egg donation agency
owners. It’s understandable that the Internet, which reaches almost every
corner of our world, seems to be more than enough to run a business especially
coupled with our cell phone! Not so my friends. In the world of surrogacy and
donation being a one man alone show will not work. Soon you will find yourself
lost in the ever shifting field of infertility, uneducated and uninformed.
(Behind the times!)
I am not saying that you can’t run an agency by yourself. That is being done at this very moment by several reputable agencies a crossed the USA. What I am saying is that you need to connect with other agency owners, physicians, clinical staff, reproductive attorneys and mental health professionals. Being an island all unto yourself will not work in the long run.
I know that getting out of your home office is may cost you money and time. Visit clinics? Talk with attorneys? Attend a conference? Why do you need to do that when you can use the phone and internet? The answer is because people tend to trust those whom they meet in person and I don’t mean just once but over and over. It’s human nature. Plus the things you pick up about others when you meet THEM in person is invaluable!
Here are 8 tips to get you out of the isolation rut:
1) Making a few clinic/office visits a couple of times a year in your area will really help your business grow. (You don’t need to bring lunch…brochures and cards are just fine…cookies are good too!)
2) Attending a conference, seminar or workshop at least twice a year and networking while there (My suggestions: START ART, SEEDS and ASRM)
3) Meet with your clients, donors and surrogates in person whenever possible
4) Meet with hospital staff whenever there is a birth local to you
5) Bring brochures and business cards with you to your own personal appointments
6) Practice your ‘elevator speech’ for the next time someone asks you “What do YOU do?” Get use to talking about YOU!
7) Join a business group like the Rotary Club or Ladies Who Launch, (I belong to STARS: Seattle Tacoma Area Reproductive Society, which is local to me) and attend meetings frequently (Even though some of these clubs are not within the infertility field you can network with other business owners and pick up some general marketing tips and make unexpected connections)
8) Join online listservs, Linked IN and Facebook groups and then attend the face to face get together
I am not saying that you can’t run an agency by yourself. That is being done at this very moment by several reputable agencies a crossed the USA. What I am saying is that you need to connect with other agency owners, physicians, clinical staff, reproductive attorneys and mental health professionals. Being an island all unto yourself will not work in the long run.
I know that getting out of your home office is may cost you money and time. Visit clinics? Talk with attorneys? Attend a conference? Why do you need to do that when you can use the phone and internet? The answer is because people tend to trust those whom they meet in person and I don’t mean just once but over and over. It’s human nature. Plus the things you pick up about others when you meet THEM in person is invaluable!
Here are 8 tips to get you out of the isolation rut:
1) Making a few clinic/office visits a couple of times a year in your area will really help your business grow. (You don’t need to bring lunch…brochures and cards are just fine…cookies are good too!)
2) Attending a conference, seminar or workshop at least twice a year and networking while there (My suggestions: START ART, SEEDS and ASRM)
3) Meet with your clients, donors and surrogates in person whenever possible
4) Meet with hospital staff whenever there is a birth local to you
5) Bring brochures and business cards with you to your own personal appointments
6) Practice your ‘elevator speech’ for the next time someone asks you “What do YOU do?” Get use to talking about YOU!
7) Join a business group like the Rotary Club or Ladies Who Launch, (I belong to STARS: Seattle Tacoma Area Reproductive Society, which is local to me) and attend meetings frequently (Even though some of these clubs are not within the infertility field you can network with other business owners and pick up some general marketing tips and make unexpected connections)
8) Join online listservs, Linked IN and Facebook groups and then attend the face to face get together
You will find that once
people see you out and about and connect with your charming personality your
network and contacts will continue to grow. Someone who can’t help their client
out might just send them to you. Others may want to work with you on a project or
invite you to join a board. The more involved you become the more exposure you
will get. Trust me…it’s all good!
Wednesday, February 3, 2016
How Surrogacy and Egg Donation Agency Owners Fail: Unethical Behaviors
If you go down the wrong path you will lose clients, your reputation, your staff and finally your business. If that’s not stating the obvious then I don’t know what is! But lets remember that I am talking about Surrogacy/ Egg donation Agency owners/staff who are dealing with clients who come to them already vulnerable and needing a guiding hand through this family building process. Add to that hopeful women who are excited to help your clients become the parents they have always dreamed of being. The temptation to engage in behaviors listed below can be quite strong. But you must RESIST!
What does unethical behavior look like? Below is a snap shot:
*Anything illegal (This is a no brainer but it has to be on the list and I believe we can think of a recent case or two of baby selling/human trafficking....)
*My personal current pet peeve, using state or federal insurance for a surrogate pregnancy (this is illegal in some states and a huge gray area in others and it seems that most people do not want their tax dollars going toward a surrogacy pregnancy)
*Misleading Intended Parents (“Yes, we have several surrogates waiting to be matched” when you really have 2 and you have 5 IP’s in line)
*Misleading donors and surrogates about how many recipients or IP’s are waiting to be matched
*Misleading donors or surrogates about how long the wait may be to be matched and how long it will be before they get any sort of payment
*Telling donors that the agency have bought insurance for them when really they have not
*Misinforming surrogates or donors about the potential risks or procedures (Shots anyone? Bloating? Weight gain? No sex? Hmmmm)
*Telling Intended Parents that the surrogate has maternity insurance when the reality is there is a surrogacy exclusion on her policy and you are just praying that no one finds out
*”Fixing up” donor profiles by removing family history of cancer, alcoholism, drug abuse, higher IQ, etc. (No one will know! It’s ‘anonymous’ right?)
*Padding the bill
*Holding escrow when you are not licensed or bonded to do so
*Encouraging a surrogate to waive the right to an attorney in order "to save" the IP's money
*Telling Surrogate that selective reduction seldom happens and so just agree to it and other demands that IPs may want her to do
*Not contacting the donor with an IPs further questions…instead just guess at the answer
I could go on. I don’t want to you to think I am totally innocent from all of the above! I held escrow…once! Back in 2003 and it just turned out to be a bigger pain then it was worth. We quickly found a local attorney to hold all of our escrows for us. (Instant relief!) I, myself, have waived the right to an attorney for my second surrogacy (2004-2005)…shame on me because I could have really used some advice about half way through…but that’s called the classroom of life. The other issues that are listed are being done by someone, somewhere, right now. Maybe just one or two unethical practices but still…more then one "someone’s" as a matter of fact. And most are changing their ways…it’s hard to change when you want your business to flourish but if you continue along this unethical path you soon will have zero clients to worry about!
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